It was my sons 3rd birthday and I had to set up for his birthday party at my grandfathers home. My husband wasn’t helping just playing cards and talking with his mother. My son was running around playing on his own. I smelled and really had to go pee but I couldn’t do anything until I finished setting up. Then it started to rain, and my mother in law, husband, and son left saying for me to finish the set up while they went somewhere safe. As it rained harder water bubbles started to form in the ceiling and walls. I’m the kitchen where I was cooking it was raining inside the home. I finished grabbing the games for outside and when I stepped outside it was my backyard instead. The rain had stopped and everyone started showing up to the party. There was a whole other story line I couldn’t focus on because I was worried about the party. But all I heard was that my cousins wife’s sister died. Finally it was time for me to get ready and I only had two shirts and both were slutty pink crop tops. I decided to say screw it and look for something in my husbands closet but I really REALLY had to pee. There was a toilet built into the bed under one of the pillows. My mother in law built it when I was pregnant. I was trying to use it when all of my cousins appeared on the bed telling me not to go pee in front of them. So I went to the bathroom to pee and it felt to real and i realized i was dreaming so I woke up. I woke up in bed next to my son in my room and it was still dark out, I checked the time and the numbers looked like old pictured from Egypt. It was extra cold in my room so I got up to go get a bigger blanket and I heard noises in my sons room. I went to go check it out and I had to walk down a huge long hallway. When I got into his room it was my old room when I was about 10. I opened the door and saw a kid that looked like finny but he had a longer face and longer hairstyle. He was playing with something and I noticed there was a dark man behind the kid rummaging around in a drawer. The kid started to run at me and i picked up a chair and started softly hitting him saying get out of my house. Then the man noticed me too and turned with a creepy smile and a growl then jumped at me. I swung back to hit him but he already grabbed me. And I woke up.
This dream is full of symbolism and seems to reflect feelings of responsibility, pressure, and fear. The setting of your son's 3rd birthday party at your grandfather's home may represent a sense of nostalgia and familial connections. Your husband not helping and playing cards with his mother could symbolize feelings of being unsupported or burdened with tasks while others are distracted.
The urgency to set up for the party despite needing to pee could represent a struggle to prioritize your own needs over responsibilities. The rain and water bubbles in the house could signify emotional overwhelm and potential issues that need addressing.
Your concern for the party and the news of your cousin's wife's sister's death may reflect a fear of being judged for not being able to handle everything or a fear of not being able to properly celebrate amidst tragedy.
The struggle to find appropriate clothing may symbolize feelings of inadequacy or insecurity. The toilet built into the bed could represent a need for comfort and self-care, particularly during vulnerable moments like pregnancy.
The appearance of your cousins and the experience of realizing you were dreaming before waking up may represent a shift in perspective or a realization of being in control of your circumstances.
The final part of the dream, with the noises in your son's room and encountering a dark man, could symbolize fears or anxieties lurking in your subconscious. The confrontation with the dark man may represent a feeling of being threatened or overwhelmed by unknown forces.
Overall, this dream may indicate feelings of pressure, vulnerability, and unresolved emotions. It could be beneficial to reflect on any stressors or fears in your waking life that may be manifesting in your dreams. Engaging in self-care, seeking support from loved ones, and addressing any underlying concerns may help alleviate these feelings of unease.